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Shomaya McFarland

LPC

Shomaya McFarland, LPC

Practical support for relationship and life stressors

Licensed in Louisiana
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About Shomaya

Shomaya McFarland is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Louisiana with 13 years working in mental health. She aims to help people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, anger, depression, and life changes. Her style is informal and relaxed, and she focuses on listening closely and giving straightforward feedback.

She commonly helps people process emotions and work through attachment issues that affect close relationships. She also supports those coping with grief, career stress, low self-esteem, and difficulties related to body image or identity. Her approach is practical and conversational, rather than highly technical.

McFarland blends client-centered care with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills, along with mindfulness and motivational interviewing. Sessions often include active listening, reflections, and small behavior-based steps people can try between meetings. She emphasizes showing options so clients can choose what fits them best.

She has experience as a counselor, crisis therapist, counselor supervisor, and case manager. That work informs a steady, grounded way of responding when emotions feel overwhelming or when communication breaks down in relationships.

Shomaya is clear about fit: she may not be the right choice for deep trauma work or long-standing childhood wounds. She is well suited to help with everyday stressors, relationship conflict, parenting strains, infidelity, and navigating separations or life transitions.

If someone is ready to start making changes, she offers a supportive, nonjudgmental space to talk through problems and try new directions.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Shomaya uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try small behavior changes. CBT often focuses on practical exercises and short experiments people can do between sessions to reduce anxiety and manage mood. She also draws from Client-Centered Therapy, which centers on listening, empathy, and helping people find their own solutions. That approach works well when someone needs a supportive space to talk through emotions and clarify goals.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work. She will collaborate with each person to decide which approaches fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That conversation is ongoing, and methods can be adjusted as progress unfolds.

Online therapy offers flexibility in how people meet. Video calls let conversations feel face-to-face, phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports quicker check-ins, and text-based messaging helps keep a thread of support between meetings. These options make it easier to fit sessions around work, caregiving, or other responsibilities while keeping treatment consistent.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy problems, anger, grief, self-esteem struggles, career stress, ADHD concerns, and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is informal and relaxed with an emphasis on active listening and straightforward feedback. Sessions are conversational and focused on practical steps to try between meetings.

What is her background in mental health?

She has 13 years of experience working as a counselor, crisis therapist, counselor supervisor, and case manager which shapes a steady, experienced approach.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, practicing in Louisiana.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How are fees handled for therapy?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementADHD

Also works with

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Licensed

Louisiana

Languages

English

License and registration

LPC, Louisiana
6715
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1295106607

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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