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Paul Weaver

LMFT

Paul Weaver, LMFT

Compassionate therapist for relationship and emotional struggles

Licensed in Florida, Oregon, Washington
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About Paul

Paul Weaver is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people facing relationship and emotional struggles. He meets individuals and couples who are dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, intimacy problems, or major life changes. Paul writes and talks plainly with clients so they can make steady progress.

Paul focuses on finding connection and emotional safety inside difficult relationships. He uses a client-centered stance that centers the person's needs and experiences. His work is also informed by emotionally-focused approaches and cognitive behavioral methods to help people notice patterns and try different responses.

In sessions he listens for how past relationships and attachment shape current reactions. That often leads to practical steps for communicating, managing stress, or reducing unhelpful habits. He also addresses issues such as addictions, grief, body image, and struggles around sexuality and kink in a direct, nonjudgmental way.

Paul brings nine years of clinical experience and practices as an LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. He has spent time in private practice and has supported clients through transitions, trauma, and parenting strains.

He offers in-person work in Florida and provides online options for people who cannot meet face to face. Paul approaches therapy as a collaborative process - he and the client decide what will help most and adjust as needed.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds affect how people relate today. Online sessions can help identify attachment patterns and practice new ways of connecting during conversations about care and closeness. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. In remote sessions, CBT techniques are used to spot thinking traps, test different reactions, and build small behavioral experiments between meetings.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and the issues at hand, then suggest a plan that blends methods where useful. That plan is revisited and adjusted as progress unfolds so therapy stays practical and relevant.

Online therapy offers flexibility with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and nonverbal cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging let people send updates, try short check-ins, or reflect between longer sessions. These options help make care fit around work, family, and travel without losing continuity of treatment.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Paul help with?

He helps people with relationship strain, trauma and abuse, intimacy and sexuality concerns, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, and life transitions.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a client-centered approach with emotionally-focused methods and cognitive behavioral ideas to notice patterns and try practical changes.

What is his clinical background?

Paul has nine years of clinical experience and has worked in private practice supporting people through trauma, adjustment, and relationship issues.

Where is Paul licensed and based?

He is an LMFT and practices in Florida with credentials listed as OR LMFT and FL LMFT.

Which languages and international clients are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for online work.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

9+ years

Licensed

Florida, Oregon, Washington

Languages

English

License and registration

LMFT, Florida
MT3669
LMFT, Oregon
T2823
LMFT, Washington
LF61631782
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1619338704

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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