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Mary Stein

LMFT

Mary Stein, LMFT

Experienced therapist focused on practical change

Licensed in California
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About Mary

Mary Stein is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. She has practiced for 27 years and focuses on helping people who are dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, addictions, relationship struggles, and major life changes.

Her style is warm and interactive. She aims to listen first, understand what brought someone to therapy, and then choose practical steps together. Sessions tend to be respectful and direct, with an emphasis on small changes that add up over time.

Mary often uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help people notice unhelpful thinking, try new behaviors, and develop coping skills. She also draws on client-centered and existential ideas to support a person’s values, choices, and sense of meaning.

Her background includes private practice work and clinical supervision in adolescent residential programs, along with experience at a domestic violence agency. That mix informs a practical approach to problems like parenting stress, family conflict, chronic illness, and substance concerns.

People who work with her can expect collaborative goal setting and hands-on tools for managing symptoms. She emphasizes compassion and steady progress, aiming to help clients build healthier relationships with themselves and others.

Online approaches that focus on skills and meaning

Mary commonly uses cognitive behavioral methods to help people notice unhelpful thoughts, test new behaviors, and practice problem solving for anxiety, depression, or addictive behaviors. CBT is practical and skill-based, good for people who want concrete tools.

She also works from a client-centered perspective that emphasizes listening, respect, and collaboration. This approach supports people who need emotional understanding and space to identify their own goals. Dialectical behavior therapy ideas are sometimes used to teach emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and better interpersonal skills for intense emotions and relationship strain.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Mary will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful, then adapt methods as therapy progresses. The plan can change over time as needs shift.

Online therapy offers several practical benefits. Video calls let people meet face-to-face when schedules or distance make in-person visits difficult. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when a quick check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging provide brief, on-the-go touchpoints and ongoing support between sessions. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent while fitting work, caregiving, or health constraints into a weekly routine.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, sleep and eating concerns, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem, career challenges, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm, accepting, and interactive. Sessions focus on listening first, then setting practical goals and taking small steps toward change.

How much experience does she have?

She has 27 years of clinical experience working in private practice, adolescent residential programs, and a domestic violence agency.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start therapy with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

27+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

License and registration

LMFT, California
35416
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1982804514

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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