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Dr. Susan Graysen

CA Psychologist 11434

Dr. Susan Graysen, CA Psychologist 11434

Experienced psychologist for intimacy and life changes

Licensed in California
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About Susan

Dr. Susan Graysen helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting strain, self-esteem struggles, and life transitions. She also addresses sexual concerns, LGBT issues, and a wide range of family and relationship topics. She makes room for frank, nonjudgmental conversations about intimacy and sexual practices when those are part of the problem.

She works in a collaborative way and listens closely. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer understanding rather than lectures. Dr. Graysen draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, attachment ideas, and client-centered methods to tailor what she does to each person.

With three decades of experience she brings steady clinical perspective. Her background includes work in human sexuality through a neuropsychiatric institute program. That experience informs how she talks about desire, arousal, kink, and communication in relationships.

In sessions she aims to help people identify unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, practice new ways of relating, and rebuild confidence after betrayal or loss. She uses straightforward tools clients can try between appointments to see what helps.

People who are worried about intimacy, commitment, blended-family tensions, aging and geriatric concerns, or the aftermath of infidelity will find focused, goal-oriented work. Dr. Graysen places the client's priorities first and adjusts methods to fit each person's goals and pace.

Therapeutic approaches that translate to online care

Dr. Graysen commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy alongside a client-centered stance. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and changing patterns of behavior to reduce anxiety and depression. It often includes homework and practical exercises to try between sessions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current reactions and closeness; it helps people address trust, intimacy, and connection problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will discuss options, listen to your goals, and adapt techniques to match your needs and preferences. The plan can shift as progress is made so therapy stays relevant and useful.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for conversational work and demonstrations, phone can be less bandwidth intensive, live chat lets you check in quickly, and messaging supports short updates or between-session coaching. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to continue care when travel or scheduling challenges arise.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Dr. Graysen help with?

She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting challenges, self-esteem worries, and coping with life changes. She also helps with sexual concerns, infidelity, blended family issues, and aging-related matters.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and listening-focused. She offers practical tools and works with clients to choose approaches that fit their needs and goals.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has 30 years of clinical experience and long experience addressing human sexuality and relationship concerns. That background shapes how she discusses desire, arousal, and intimacy difficulties.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is listed as CA Psychologist 11434 and practices in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Appointments can be conducted by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)HypnotherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

License and registration

Psychologist, California
11434
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1275692188

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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