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Sharmie Silva

LCSW

Sharmie Silva, LCSW

Practical, relationship-focused therapy for real life

Licensed in California
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About Sharmie

Sharmie Silva is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 15 years of experience who uses clear, practical methods to help people make changes. She centers sessions on straightforward tools and realistic goals. Her approach is calm and goal-oriented so clients can see steady progress.

She often applies cognitive behavioral ideas to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and shift behavior. Imago Relationship Therapy informs her work on communication and relational patterns. Solution-Focused Therapy helps keep conversations directed toward small, doable steps that add up over time.

Sharmie works with concerns such as relationship strain, parenting stress, family conflict, and life transitions. She also supports people dealing with abandonment, attachment issues, communication breakdowns, control issues, and the emotional effects of divorce and separation.

People who want to rebuild self-esteem or develop more self-love will find concrete strategies in sessions. She includes simple practice tasks between meetings so progress continues outside the session. The tone in her work is practical and compassionate, with an emphasis on clearer communication and steady skill building.

Sharmie is licensed in California as an LCSW. Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients. Therapy is available through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, using a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How these approaches work in online sessions

Sharmie combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy in online work to keep sessions practical and focused. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people spot unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors to change how they feel. Imago Relationship Therapy focuses on communication patterns and helps partners practice safer, clearer ways to speak and listen. Solution-Focused Therapy keeps conversations aimed at small, achievable steps so progress can be felt quickly.

Finding the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or has not helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to match different needs. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation for relational work. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a quicker check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging work well for brief updates, problem-solving between sessions, or people who prefer typing over talking. These formats make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into a busy life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps with relationship strain, family and parenting challenges, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include abandonment, attachment issues, communication problems, control issues, divorce and separation, post-traumatic stress, and building self-love.

What is her therapy style like?

She uses practical, goal-focused work that combines cognitive behavioral ideas, relational techniques, and solution-focused steps. Sessions emphasize clear communication and small exercises to practice between meetings.

How much experience does she have?

She brings 15 years of professional experience to her practice. That background includes work supporting people through family conflict, transitions, and trauma-related concerns.

What credentials and region should I know about?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California. Her practice is based in California and she lists that as her location.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English. She does accept international clients for online work.

In what formats are sessions held?

Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options let clients choose what fits their schedule and communication comfort.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Specific pricing is provided through the service during sign-up.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationPost-traumatic stressSelf-love

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Imago Relationship TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

License and registration

LCSW, California
25203
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1811756802

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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