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Paula Grande

LCSW

Paula Grande, LCSW

Practical strategies for stress and change

Licensed in New Jersey
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About Paula

Paula Grande is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on practical strategies to reduce stress and anxiety. She uses clear, respectful language and aims to create a calm, patient-centered space for conversation. Paula emphasizes small, manageable steps toward feeling better.

She offers Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which looks at how thoughts and actions connect to feelings. Paula also draws on client-centered methods to follow each person’s priorities and Motivational Interviewing to help clients find their own reasons to change. These approaches are used to address anxiety, depression, and major life changes.

Paula helps people dealing with relationship strain and issues that touch identity, including LGBTQ concerns. She works with people facing grief around separation, blended family challenges, caregiving stress, and feelings of isolation or shame. Communication problems, control issues, and attachment-related worries are also common topics in her sessions.

Her method is collaborative. Paula listens first, then helps set simple goals and practical steps. Sessions focus on habits and small shifts that people can practice between meetings to build forward momentum.

Paula has four years of professional experience and holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential in New Jersey. She provides services in English and frames therapy as a gradual process of trying things and adjusting as needed.

How online CBT and client-centered work together

Paula uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and try different actions to change how they feel. CBT is practical and often focuses on short-term skills for anxiety, mood, and stress. She also uses client-centered therapy, which means sessions follow what matters most to the person and move at their pace.

Motivational Interviewing is sometimes blended in to help people clarify their goals and find personal reasons to try new habits. These approaches are used together so the therapist and client can decide which tools fit the situation. Paula treats the choice of methods as a team effort, adjusting based on progress and preferences.

Online therapy makes these approaches easier to access. Video calls let the conversation feel close to an in-person session. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers no video. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins, practicing skills between meetings, or fitting support into a busy day. These options provide flexibility so people can keep therapy consistent around work, caregiving, or other responsibilities.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Paula help with?

She helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and issues related to LGBTQ identity. Additional topics include attachment, caregiver stress, codependency, and life transitions.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical. She combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with client-centered conversation and motivational interviewing to set achievable steps.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Paula has four years of professional work experience in clinical settings providing therapy and support.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential - LCSW - and practices in New Jersey.

Which languages and international options are offered?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Paula offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Licensed

New Jersey

Languages

English

License and registration

LCSW, New Jersey
44SC06343600
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1679246433

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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