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Dr. Hilary DeShong

MS Psychologist 59 1033

Dr. Hilary DeShong, MS Psychologist 59 1033

Calm, practical therapy for anxiety and life change

Licensed in Mississippi
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About Hilary

Dr. Hilary DeShong helps people who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, low self-esteem, and major life changes. She also supports concerns such as grief, sleep problems, panic attacks, workplace issues, and questions about career and life purpose. Dr. DeShong practices in Mississippi and brings a calm, approachable manner to sessions.

She uses clear, practical strategies in conversation. Sessions focus on skills that can be used between meetings, like managing anxious thoughts, improving communication, and handling setbacks. Many people come for short-term coaching or longer work on deeper patterns that keep them stuck.

Her style centers on listening first, then trying out new ways of responding. She aims to make therapy feel collaborative rather than prescriptive. Mindfulness, behavior-focused tools, and values-based goals often guide the work.

Dr. DeShong draws on 12 years of experience as a clinical professional. Her listed credential is MS Psychologist 59 1033. That background informs straightforward, evidence-informed methods she offers in session.

People frequently address relationship friction, social anxiety, isolation, chronic pain or illness, and career stress. She also supports those exploring sexual orientation and LGBT-related concerns. The emphasis is on practical steps people can take to feel steadier and more in control.

Therapy sessions can include skill practice, problem-solving, and work on thought patterns. The pace and focus are set together so each person leaves with clear next steps and tools to try between sessions.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and trying out practical behavior changes to reduce anxiety, improve mood, and handle panic symptoms. It often involves homework and short experiments between sessions to test new ways of thinking and acting.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice what matters to them and take committed action toward those values even when uncomfortable feelings are present. This approach is useful for coping with chronic pain, grief, or ongoing anxiety by shifting the focus toward meaningful goals.

Client-centered therapy centers on listening and building a trusting connection so a person feels heard and accepted. This gives space to explore self-esteem, relationship concerns, and life transitions at a pace that feels right.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will ask about goals, day-to-day challenges, and preferences, then recommend ways to combine methods. This is a collaborative process and adjustments are made as progress is tracked.

Online sessions can be held by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video is good for deeper conversation and skill practice, phone works well when bandwidth is limited, chat or text is useful for brief check-ins or ongoing support, and each format can be mixed to match a busy schedule. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into work, school, or caregiving routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?

She supports stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, self-esteem, grief, sleep problems, panic attacks, workplace struggles, and questions about life purpose and career.

What is the general therapy style here?

The style is collaborative and practical, with a focus on listening first and then trying skills and strategies that fit each person's life.

How much experience does this therapist have?

She has 12 years of clinical experience working with a range of concerns from anxiety to chronic illness and life transitions.

What are the official credentials and where is she based?

The listed credential is MS Psychologist 59 1033 and she practices in Mississippi.

Are sessions offered in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

Which session formats are available?

Therapy can be delivered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What steps start the process of working together?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefSleeping disordersDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Chronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDivorce and separationImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMoney and financial issuesPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Licensed

Mississippi

Languages

English

License and registration

Psychologist, Mississippi
59 1033
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1770263626

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check a license with the state licensing board and an NPI in the national registry.

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